So,you plan your life do you?
So, you get the misconception that one can plan one's life.And life inevitably includes "love".Simply because dead don't love,but the dead can be loved (either b'cos they are dead or after they die you feel their worth) And in the life of man/woman,it is a feeling/emotion/bane/trait (etc.) that won't ever die (option of suicide/murder of love left open). With the thought one plans one's life,one carries forward the belief one plans one's love too.
Let's see the many aspects of a plan.For one you need a target which you set to achieve (the target would be at a distance of course).And then you brace yourself for a step by step procedure (clandestine/open method).And then the most important of it all,your single minded devotion/determination to acheive it (by hook or crook in some cases).The factors affectin the reach of a target in life when overcome will be "hurrayed" by all people,and it feels good that way (but what i'm concerned here is not of the accolades rather of one's individual happiness). Hmmmm will this work in love?
A person who plans his life will have the misconception that he/she can plan for love too.(i'm talkin of one side of the coin not the other,purely because i don't believe love can be planned).One can plan for love if one plans to love "oneself".... you see there are no external factors(in this case).But when we are talkin of true,unconditional,"i'll die for you" kinda love,plannin is absurd, cos you can't plan to be "true","unconditional" etc..
Yes,at times you can trap a person you need to love you,but what is love without honesty? and would this single minded devotion to reach your target get you accolaades? no rather you might me called a bastard or bitch for it.Why? because in your love there was nothin called romance/love.And the only person who will say it was love is you,and in perspective you were not actually in love with the person but rather with yourself,for to get a man/woman to love you,you should market yourself and to be successful in that you must love yourself.(this is the case when you have a person existing as a target,in that you have seen him/her).
(but what happens when you have a plan to love a person so far non existant...."i'll love this kinda guy/gal syndrome")
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shouldnt there be a second part to the post? where none of it is planned, but two people fall in love, maybe in a moment, maybe in a decade, but confirmedly, deeply, undoubtedly in love?
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